The one where it was a crime to mention tumblr on ANY website other than tumblr because we feared of people finding out about tumblr and every starts migrating to tumblr and ditching facebook.
The tumblr WAAAY before they “made the new dash”.
The tumblr that had tumblarity.
I bet 85 percent of you dont even know what tumblarity is.
I miss when tumblr was actually about expressing yourself, and not trying to get more followers than someone else or when people didnt cry for promo’s because it didnt matter how many followers you had.
All that mattered was that you were being free.
Now it feels like the place that once allowed people to be free, and do or say what they want, is now just a place where people cry out for attention they dont need, or try to get 20k followers or are posting pictures of themselves trying to get notes.
Now all i see is “reblog if. if you dont reblog then blah blah blah. Follow me because……. Follow for follow? Promo for Promo?”
NO! TUMBLR IS NOT FOR THAT KIND OF STUFF! SO JUST STOP AND GET OUT IF YOU DO NOT FULLY UNDERSTAND THE MEANING OF TUMBLR.
If we gave a shit about what things used to be, people would be constantly crying about that really delicious thing we just ate
I finally got my blade dancer today~! Just turned lvl 50 x] I’ve been stalking the eden tag for a while so… hello all o 3o/ I’m Amia on the diamond server~
You have a lot of patience
Haha well my first account was on the sapphire server… and I was trying to get a ranger. But that stopped because the guy I was playing with got tired of the game :/ only got my hunter to 40 and my martial artist to 40 @_@ it was hard. So this wasn’t so bad~ xD
I don’t think I have a character on the Diamond server, if that’s the one on the top of the list. I’m only level 37 though.
Y’know, that’s really good advice now that you say it
Because I always get in the middle and it’s 99% unresolvable because I feel like both parties just refuse to be wrong or something. I guess it’s kinda hard to tell them that because I would feel like a shitty friend if I can’t offer an ear. It’s been stressful to deal with on top of other things.
Maybe one of the reasons it stresses me out because I feel like that my feelings are not being thought about and not being asked how I feel before it gets laid on me. I sometime have other fights to deal with, with myself or others.
I don’t mind giving an ear, giving advice, or anything like that. But, when i’m stuck in someone’s fight and my feelings are not being thought of, I always feel shitty during it and even a bit after it. But, I try to help anyways because I hate putting myself first.
Just gonna have to put your foot down and tell them just that as honestly as you can. Hopefully they’ll understand how this is affecting you.
I am just afraid of upsetting them and seeming like a shitty friend, I don’t want to lose friends because I put my foot down
But it’s still not an excuse and I need to do it at some point. I’ll probably need wait until it gets really bad like another time where I had a migraine(or headache) from the stress even though i’m taking meds for it.
But yeah, I really need to put my foot down. I just hope they won’t be upset.
Even if they do get upset, good friends are hard to get rid of. Worst case scenario you might not talk for a while, and there might be some animosity even when you get back to talking after a reconciliation, but eventually you’re both stronger for it. Either way you’ll have addressed the issue and will be better than you were ignoring it or swallowing back any negative emotions for their sake.
That’s personal experience talking on my part. Hopefully it goes better for you. Wish you the best of luck in the matter and if you wanna vent about it or talk some more lemme know.
Thanks, I just hope I don’t feel like super shit soup afterwards. Which I imagine tastes like dirty pennies.
I guess I kinda needed to hear it from a unbiased person who doesn’t know them or anything as well as someone with experience with such situations.